Dinner Party for 6 — One Week Out

Plan a relaxed dinner where you actually sit down with your guests instead of sweating in the kitchen.

7 Days Before

• Send invites; ask about dietary restrictions and allergies
• Plan menu: 1 starter, 1 main, 2 sides, 1 dessert — at least 2 of these are make-ahead
• Confirm you have enough plates, glasses, chairs, and serving dishes

3 Days Before

• Grocery shop — keep a pantry list for missing basics
• Buy wine: 1 bottle per 2 guests, plus one extra; one white, one red
• Build a 90-minute playlist; pre-load on speaker
• Clean bathroom and entryway — guests see these first

Day Before

• Make any sauces, dressings, or desserts that hold
• Set the table fully — including water glasses and serving spoons
• Chill white wine and any sparkling drinks

Day Of — Afternoon

• Prep all vegetables and protein up to the cooking step
• Light a candle 30 min before guests arrive — sets mood
• Shower and get dressed before kitchen mode

Day Of — Last Hour

• Pour yourself a drink — you've earned it
• Open red wine to breathe
• Set out starter or snack so it's ready when first guest arrives
• Empty dishwasher so dirty dishes can disappear during dinner

Hosting

• Greet at the door; take coats and offer a drink within 90 seconds
• Don't apologize for anything — guests follow your energy